The reason I do what I do is because I believe in miracles. I believe each of us has the power and resources to shape our lives and fulfil our potential.
My passion and purpose is to make the most of my life and assist others in doing the same.
I know life is a precious and sacred gift that we need to treasure and make the most of.
Further, our life is underpinned by time, so we need to be mindful of how we use it and most of all take care not to waste it.
I believe we are all born into life with endless possibilities. We arrive as beautiful, clean, new souls into the world.
So what goes wrong?
Each of us are new malleable beings who become conditioned by family, society, culture and ancestry. This is further impacted by the worldwide phenomena of politics, economy, wars and famine and each soul’s innate ‘beingness.’
We largely accept the confinements that we are conditioned into and lose touch with our potential for play, creativity, magic and miracles.
We lose hope and doubt ourselves.
I was born into working class England to a Turkish Cypriot father and English mother who loved me but had no appreciation of education or growth and who accepted their situation and status in life without question. They had been conditioned well. I was the eldest of seven children and was luckily born at a time where I could take advantage of a high quality, free, state education that encouraged enquiry and possibilities with an attitude of ‘the sky is the limit’.
Although I heard this message and accepted it, I didn’t take it in fully. I was conditioned by my environment too.
One thing I did know was that I wanted to make a difference. Help people make the most of their lives and I knew that this must start with me. I became a teacher of Physics and Chemistry for many years where I loved helping children find their passion and potential and ability for free thought.
Later at a pivotal point in my life I met two Vedic astrologers in one week while on holiday. This opened up another whole realm of knowledge. This included karmic cycles, past lives and the idea that we are here for a purpose on a spiritual journey.
Cutting a long story short, to the shock of those around me, I stopped school teaching and opened another door of possibilities and became a Vedic astrologer. I was still in touch with my purpose of assisting people make the most of their lives, but going in another direction.
Then I began to ask the questions.
Do we have to be bound by karmic cycles?
Is it possible to make deep psychological shifts and changes and live more freely and meaningfully?
I felt in my gut the answer to these questions was a resounding ‘yes’. This set me on a path of finding the best ways to achieve change.
I became a counsellor, but found this too limiting and slow so I became a hypnotherapist and NLP practitioner. I was happy with this as it assisted me to help people free themselves from blocking their potential in a deeper and faster way.
Synchronicity came in again when another path opened up and Family Constellations crossed my path while backpacking around India. I had heard about Family Constellations two years earlier and remembered making a wish to ‘see it in action’, but hadn’t done anything about it, as it felt like a long way away at that time, coming from Germany.
This turned out to be a great gift because with Family Constellations I help people clear or come to peace with deeply held ancestral patterns. I gratefully stepped into the roll holding regular workshops, private sessions and eventually training.
In this I came closer to my wish of helping myself and others make the most of their lives, in coming out of conditioning and limitations. In offering training to others my wish became even more of a reality as more practitioners become part of a wave spreading the healing process around the nation and the world. This results in more people being assisted to come out of their blocks and limitations so that they can find their potential and purpose.
Over time I came to realise, profound as it is, Family Constellations does not cover all bases. Through many clients I discovered a better way to deal with non-family or non ancestral issues with a process I developed called Emotional Mind Integration (EMI). Emotional Mind Integration is a psychotherapeutic-hypnotherapy dealing with a range of personal, emotions, beliefs and situations and trauma resolution in a profound and integrating manner.
I remain a strong advocate, practitioner and trainer of Family Constellations for resolving family and ancestral patterns and include (EMI) Emotional Mind Integration as its perfect companion for resolving non-systemic issues speedily in private sessions. The dual approach is RCH (Rapid Core Healing).
I continue to hold Family Constellations workshops and training and practice RCH, (EMI and Family Constellations) in private practice.
I offer training in Rapid Core Healing, Family Constellations and Emotional Mind Integration so that my core wish of helping as many people as possible may be realised exponentially in the nation and the globe. My dream is to enable those who are ready to come out of their conditioning and throw off the shackles that bind them and to rediscover the magic and mystery of life in being able to fulfil their potential, open their wings and fly.
These ideas are presented in her book Rapid Core Healing for Growth and Emotional Healing (2016)