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Yildiz Sethi

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What’s in the Way?

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Have you ever found yourself stuck in your career or up against an invisible glass ceiling or in a pattern of self sabotage? This may even be when you’ve ‘done the work’ in terms of experience and education and are highly skilled in your chosen field. If this is where you are, you may have considered that perhaps it may be your mind-set, poorly formed goals, or lack of appropriate strategies? To this end many us enter personal development courses, reflection, or seek the guidance of a coach. For some this may be sufficient in developing more successful beliefs, expectations, confidence and outcomes. But what if there is no change? For many years now I have been fascinated by what it is that blocks us from achieving our potential. What allows some of us to rise to dizzy heights of success while others with similar or even better skills remain unseen and unrecognised. Yes it comes down to beliefs, confidence and connections, but also our sense of worthiness. While we can develop our beliefs, goals and strategies, our confidence and sense of worthiness comes from a much deeper place and is often the cause of sabotage and blocks. In my own life I have experienced such blocks. My experience and my work have shown that we have at least three levels of consciousness: The conscious, the personal unconscious and from Constellation theory, the systemic unconscious mind. In terms of blind spots, I have found they hide in the personal and systemic unconscious minds. It is common knowledge that unconscious blocks are deeper and harder to access and solve than those in the conscious mind. This is why we are able to resolve problems of a conscious nature with our logic and reason relatively easily. It also explains why deeper problems cannot be resolved in the same way, Many people continue to attempt to resolve deeper issues in ways that are not equipped to deal with them quickly or effectively. That’s why many are in therapy for months or years with varying degrees of success. Alternatively many have become addicted to the ‘highs’ they gain from motivational gurus such as Anthony Robbins. Seminars that stir up emotions, adrenalin and optimism that often fade in the ensuing months, as everyday life takes over. Has this happened to you, that you can’t maintain the buzz or the vision you have of yourself from those forums? This is because this buzz and ideas stir up emotions and conscious thoughts only and do not addressed or resolve the deeper blocks. Problems and blocks need to be accessed and resolved by processes that are designed to work at the level at which they arise. Personal unconscious issues may be accessed by hypnosis. However hypnosis in itself is not a cure, as it simply allows access to the personal unconscious mind , whereby a sound therapeutic approach may be used to facilitate a solution through a trance state. To resolve personal unconscious blocks I founded Emotional Mind Integration EMI. This is a concise and effective and elegant hypnotherapy process for resolving disturbances and blocks in 3-5 sessions for most people. Systemic blocks (inherited generational patterns) may come out as deep unconscious patterns or feelings that you may have vowed in your youth would never be yours. For many of us as life unfolds, we often notice echoes of themes and patterns repeating and sabotage and limitations that go against our conscious wishes arising. EMI may be the answer to resolving your blocks or RCH for a complete resolution of both personal and systemic issues.

Julie

Love truly is the basis of this wonderful process. Family Constellations was an intense experience and it was a revelation watching, and being part of, the constellations of others.

Julie

David

I had a history of trauma in my life and there has been a lot of trauma in my family too. It wasn’t until I came across Yildiz that I found out that this was something that didn’t have to continue. True to her word I am now feeling so much more at peace with myself and my past. A great gift.

David

I have just completed my second Family Constellation with Yildiz and I found it to be a profound experience touching into deep & lifelong soul pain. It feels like a huge relief of something releasing and opening into possibility lifting very old sadness.

David

‘As a manager I was ready for a new way of connecting with my team and creating a new and motivated culture that is both respectful and co operative. The Business Constellation helped me see how it was possible to improve team spirit and performance.’

David

Jackie

I am both gob smacked by the power of Family Constellations and at the same time jumping with inner joy. As I left our session I drove down the road realising my eyes had changed and with that my view on life is and will continue to also change. So many things about life are starting to make much more sense on all levels, it’s like a missing link. Many thanks

Jackie

Denise

I had a pattern of destroying all close relationships. With Yildiz’s unique way of working I feel much more at peace and have entered a new relationship and am enjoying the closeness. This is a ne experience for me but I don’t have that needs to run away any more. I am deeply grateful.

Denise

Chris

Thank you for an amazing weekend of discovery and healing. I was very impressed with the support, professionalism and friendliness.

Chris

Steve

My Family Constellations experience was truly life-changing. I was so surprised that such a gentle technique could create such wonderful changes throughout my thoughts and feelings. Amazingly, I am also experiencing the healing of a disease I have been suffering from for several years. All the symptoms are disappearing, and I have completely stopped taking anti-inflammatory medication. I have become very enthusiastic about getting out more, and living a full, pain-free life!

Steve

Jana

Yildiz's is subtle but very strong facilitator and I would trust any story to be explored under her guidance in a safe and supported way. If you're ready for deep work, you're in the right place with her.

Jana

Jane

My ability to have relations has been seriously impaired since my sexual abuse. I can’t believe that just a few sessions of EMI and Rapid Core Healing I am so relaxed and optimistic about finding a more sustaining relationship. I leave with alight heart.

Jane