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Yildiz Sethi

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What’s in the Way?

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Have you ever found yourself stuck in your career or up against an invisible glass ceiling or in a pattern of self sabotage? This may even be when you’ve ‘done the work’ in terms of experience and education and are highly skilled in your chosen field. If this is where you are, you may have considered that perhaps it may be your mind-set, poorly formed goals, or lack of appropriate strategies? To this end many us enter personal development courses, reflection, or seek the guidance of a coach. For some this may be sufficient in developing more successful beliefs, expectations, confidence and outcomes. But what if there is no change? For many years now I have been fascinated by what it is that blocks us from achieving our potential. What allows some of us to rise to dizzy heights of success while others with similar or even better skills remain unseen and unrecognised. Yes it comes down to beliefs, confidence and connections, but also our sense of worthiness. While we can develop our beliefs, goals and strategies, our confidence and sense of worthiness comes from a much deeper place and is often the cause of sabotage and blocks. In my own life I have experienced such blocks. My experience and my work have shown that we have at least three levels of consciousness: The conscious, the personal unconscious and from Constellation theory, the systemic unconscious mind. In terms of blind spots, I have found they hide in the personal and systemic unconscious minds. It is common knowledge that unconscious blocks are deeper and harder to access and solve than those in the conscious mind. This is why we are able to resolve problems of a conscious nature with our logic and reason relatively easily. It also explains why deeper problems cannot be resolved in the same way, Many people continue to attempt to resolve deeper issues in ways that are not equipped to deal with them quickly or effectively. That’s why many are in therapy for months or years with varying degrees of success. Alternatively many have become addicted to the ‘highs’ they gain from motivational gurus such as Anthony Robbins. Seminars that stir up emotions, adrenalin and optimism that often fade in the ensuing months, as everyday life takes over. Has this happened to you, that you can’t maintain the buzz or the vision you have of yourself from those forums? This is because this buzz and ideas stir up emotions and conscious thoughts only and do not addressed or resolve the deeper blocks. Problems and blocks need to be accessed and resolved by processes that are designed to work at the level at which they arise. Personal unconscious issues may be accessed by hypnosis. However hypnosis in itself is not a cure, as it simply allows access to the personal unconscious mind , whereby a sound therapeutic approach may be used to facilitate a solution through a trance state. To resolve personal unconscious blocks I founded Emotional Mind Integration EMI. This is a concise and effective and elegant hypnotherapy process for resolving disturbances and blocks in 3-5 sessions for most people. Systemic blocks (inherited generational patterns) may come out as deep unconscious patterns or feelings that you may have vowed in your youth would never be yours. For many of us as life unfolds, we often notice echoes of themes and patterns repeating and sabotage and limitations that go against our conscious wishes arising. EMI may be the answer to resolving your blocks or RCH for a complete resolution of both personal and systemic issues.

Julie

Love truly is the basis of this wonderful process. Family Constellations was an intense experience and it was a revelation watching, and being part of, the constellations of others.

Julie

I have just completed my second Family Constellation with Yildiz and I found it to be a profound experience touching into deep & lifelong soul pain. It feels like a huge relief of something releasing and opening into possibility lifting very old sadness.

Anthony

I felt like a lot of deep seated things shifted. I strongly recommend anyone who is struggling with a difficult personal situation to have their constellation done. It is relatively little time and money in exchange for huge potential rewards.

Anthony

Jo

I have been to several international trainings and this was by far the best in terms of explanations and experiential learning. I strongly recommend it

Jo

Tom

There has always been something niggling at me deep inside, but I could never get to it. I can’t believe how free I am now. A great relief.

Tom

John

‘Being over looked for promotion had become a pattern that I was finding really frustrating. It was fascinating to discover how this pattern was a repeat of my situation in my family. I am now feeling so much more confident and am looking at my options in a different way. Many thanks.’

John

Margarite

The sessions with Yildiz have been profound and yet so gentle

Margarite

Pat Quinn

I am now 75 and until four years ago I struggled with excessive weight all my life.  I was always on a diet, I would lose weight then put it on again.  I decided to participate in a Family Constellation Workshop focusing on my life long issue of weight gain.   That workshop was a few years ago and I am pleased to say that I have taken off 41 kilograms and maintained that loss up till now.  All pain in my body has gone, I have lots of energy and at 75, feel like I am 50.   I believe that the constellation work was a great support in that process.

Pat Quinn

Margo Courtney

Lifelong issues are no longer affecting me, and I’m attracting good things into my life now instead of more problems and difficulties. It’s been amazing, with virtually instant results after only 1 session. Leaves long drawn-out therapy for dead. I am very grateful to Yildiz and Satish. They are both intuitive, gentle, genuine and caring people. Many, many thanks.

Margo Courtney

Greg

This was truly a great training in so many respects. It really clarified and refined my approach to helping people and I was able to take it straight into my practice. I highly recommend it to anyone who is looking for a fresh approach.

Greg