Be Free to be You- Yildiz Sethi
Many of you will have asked the following questions. Who am I? What is my purpose? Am I living the best version of myself?
These are age old questions that we struggle with on our life journey.
We take on roles that serve to pay the bills and put food on the table and provide a sense of identity and security. There is no doubt, these are essential to survival and provide us with a place in the community. And yet these questions resurface at pivotal points of reflection, challenge and a range of financial, relational or emotional dilemmas. We often come to a point where the role we’ve taken on may not fit us so easily anymore, as we sense that we are so much more; if we dare to look. This means that change is on horizon and is exciting and scary at the same time; but essential if we are to grow and live a well-lived life. A life that is in keeping with who we really are and are becoming.
The problem is that we all have potential that is largely under-utilised and are under pressure to maintain our lifestyle. So the question may be, can inner change and growth take place without having to upset the applecart?
I am very much on the same journey. I was born with a strong curiosity for how things work. The physical world, nature, astronomy and science, as well as humanity, philosophy, culture and spirituality. I wanted to help myself and others like me, discover themselves and grow. I became a physics and chemistry teacher and enjoyed helping children learn how to learn and explore the world. This continued happily until a pivotal point, when synchronicity came in and I left teaching, to become a Vedic astrologer. In this I became consumed in the karmic cycles were all caught it and I wanted to know what could be done to change the deeply held psychological patterns we are all bound by. In order to allow more freedom. In 2000 became a counsellor on a quest to source the better ways of working, than what was on offer. To facilitate positive shifts in those who sought fast, positive change. This led to becoming a hypnotherapist at another synchronistic point in my life, where I discovered Family Constellations. One day, while browsing in a book shop, a little brown book appeared to pop out of the shelf at me called Acknowledging What Is, by Bert Hellinger introducing Family Constellations. I was blown away by what I read and made a silent wish to see this in action and then let it go.
Later, while back-packing in India, we stopped at an ashram to rest and the next day came upon a large sign in its centre, saying Family Constellations, come and see. We went and were blown away by the experience and joined a three day workshop and then abandoned the rest of our trip, to take part in full training that was to start the next day. That was in 2005 and the beginning of my Family Constellations career in helping people heal from generational, relational, emotional and behavioural patterns and trauma, that we all born into, The patterns that we inherit through our parents, grandparents and beyond. Family Constellations provides a safe and structured way of resolving and releasing those patterns with love and respect, so that we can move on more freely as individuals. The great thing about Family Constellations is, that it is a brief, experiential, solution-focused, psychotherapeutic process, that speaks to all of us, at our core, if we are ready for change and self-healing. I am holding my next Family Constellations workshop on 22 July in the Vonda Youngman centre Main St, North Tamborine, where you can come to do your own constellation or come to experience, observe or be a representative.
Over time, I appreciated the power of being able assist powerful generational self-healings and growth for those issues that were generational (systemic) in nature and eventually realised that another process was missing, that was equally brief, experiential, safe and powerful for those disturbances , triggers or emotional or traumatic issues that are caused by life experiences and situations. Not caused by the generational. For this I developed and trademarked, over the next ten years, two new psychotherapies. Emotional Mind Integration and Rapid Core Healing. I offer a range of alternative and powerful ways of working with people who are looking to resolve what holds them back from Being Free to be You, through deep, brief, therapeutic processes in workshops or private sessions and practitioner training, here on Tamborine mountain.
I have a Masters degree in Counselling, Diploma in Clinical Hypnotherapy, an author of three books and am a registered professional member of ACA, PACFA and ASCH
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