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Yildiz Sethi

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A New Story of Love and Hope

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We live as individuals, but carry patterns of those before us too in our feelings and impulses. It’s not until we notice those patterns appearing in our lives that we realise that willpower alone is not enough to change them.

Lets look at one story. A man is sent to war to defend his country and returns home mentally and emotionally destroyed. He has seen and done things that violate his own morality and carries a heavy burden as a survivor. The faces of those who didn’t survive remain with him in recurring dreams and flash-backs along with horror and annihilation. In his distress he becomes angry and turns to alcohol to dull his aching heart and disturbed mind. His wife becomes the sole carer of the family, as she has to take over the gap he can’t fulfil.  She is so busy in day to day matters and grief over the loss of a loving relationship and shared support of their family that the children feel her lack of presence too.

The children experience a void of emptiness and distress at having lost their father and mother in different ways.

The son who was so looking forward to having his dad back from war is shocked to find that a stranger has returned. The humour and softness of his father is no longer present. Instead there is anger, impatience and fear in the house as his mother does her best to keep life flowing for the family. The son deeply hurt by the lack of response or attention from the father he once knew doesn’t know what to do with the shock and grief he feels. He withdraws in his pain and takes in the feeling that he is unworthy of his father’s love. He carries his fathers sense of hopelessness and his own along with his mother’s distress and responsibility.

Later the son becomes a man with his own family and for a while all seems to be going well, but then he becomes depressed and turns to alcohol to dull his inner turmoil. His children are distressed to experience their father’s withdrawal and internalise this as not being enough too and so it continues.

Until it can be stopped, turned around and restored.

This is where a family constellations or business constellation can make a difference as it has the ability to merge realms of reality to assist us in the present to sort out what is ours, and others and confirm our own place in starting a new story of health and strength as a partner, parent and individual.

It’s never too late to change those internal imprints to gain more acceptance and peace and step forward in opening a new page of our life for new beginnings.

Family Constellations

Jackie

I am both gob smacked by the power of Family Constellations and at the same time jumping with inner joy. As I left our session I drove down the road realising my eyes had changed and with that my view on life is and will continue to also change. So many things about life are starting to make much more sense on all levels, it’s like a missing link. Many thanks

Jackie

Greg

This was truly a great training in so many respects. It has really clarified and refined my approach to helping people and I was able to take it straight into my practice and the opportunity to do my own constellations was invaluable. I highly recommend it to anyone who is looking for a fresh approach.

Greg

Tim Thornton

"I highly recommend EMI Training for all Hypnotherapists/NLP’ers. This is the course that will give you the tools and methods that are never covered elsewhere."

Tim Thornton
Clinical Hypnotherapist / Hypnosis Services Sydney

Diane Rooker

"I have worked as a counsellor for many years with a number of modalities and at times and at times some of these techniques were limiting in finding a final resolution for the client. EMI goes directly  to the core of the issue, works within it on many levels to create a new neural pathway. Absolutely fantastic. The EMI process is quick and effective."

Diane Rooker

Mandy

Yildiz is a grounded and skilled facilitator guiding the Constellations with wisdom, sensitivity and clear boundaries creating a sense of safety that enables deep processing to unfold. I found it to be a profound experience touching into deep & lifelong soul pain.

Mandy
Psychologist

Tom

There has always been something niggling at me deep inside, but I could never get to it. I can’t believe how free I am now. A great relief.

Tom

David

‘As a manager I was ready for a new way of connecting with my team and creating a new and motivated culture that is both respectful and co operative. The Business Constellation helped me see how it was possible to improve team spirit and performance.’

David

Jo

I have been to several international trainings and this was by far the best in terms of explanations and experiential learning. I strongly recommend it

Jo

Steve

My Family Constellations experience was truly life-changing. I was so surprised that such a gentle technique could create such wonderful changes throughout my thoughts and feelings. Amazingly, I am also experiencing the healing of a disease I have been suffering from for several years. All the symptoms are disappearing, and I have completely stopped taking anti-inflammatory medication. I have become very enthusiastic about getting out more, and living a full, pain-free life!

Steve

Chris

Thank you for an amazing weekend of discovery and healing. I was very impressed with the support, professionalism and friendliness.

Chris