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Managing the Dilemma in Family Constellations training Yildiz

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Managing the Dilemma in Family Constellations training Yildiz

Family Constellations is a highly experiential training that is unregulated at this time. The founder Bert Hellinger set it up in this way so that people who were Mums and Dads or simply interested, but not therapists, could do the training. Because he thought there should be no exclusion of people who were attracted to this way of thinking and doing.

While this has benefits, it also has a downside, as I am constantly being told horror stories of people who have set themselves up as Family Constellations practitioners who simply attended workshops, (no training) or have misinterpreted the work and are causing a lot of distress and confusion with people they see. Serious mental health harm may be done here.

Further, there are Family Constellations trainers who have set up cult-like groups where trainees are fearful of being alienated or shamed if they ask probing questions of the work, theory or practice as the trainer has set themselves up as an almost guru-like figure. This kind of work can attract people who are narcissistic or who have serious mental health issues themselves elevating themselves to positions of power.

When we set up our practice in 2005 and our trainings, we were aware of this and decided to attempt to lead by example. I have a Master’s degree in counselling and diploma in Hypnotherapist and over 22 years of experience with clients and am a registered counsellor and hypnotherapist in Australia and am guided by legal and ethical and mental health issues and am in constant professional supervision and offer supervision to my trainees. I am also an experienced educator of counsellors.

So in short, I am doing my best to provide the best practice I can of this profound work.

I do still allow practitioners and non-practitioners to do the training but am selective in who I take on.

I have created a course that is a fully online 12 week course (140 hours) that involves weekly videos, readings and tasks. The experiential component is 6 days in all online with the group and myself where theory is put into practice and includes significant personal development throughout. Trainees experience their own constellations in their own learning and growth and those of each of the group and have to do four case studies of Family Constellations and submit them to complete. Group or individual supervision is available for those who which to take part to support them in their practice and growth in the work. In addition trainees are taught several formats of private sessions and how to work online and in person. 

In this training:

  • you experience holding constellation sessions.
  • You will be able to get indemnity insurance as a Family Constellation practitioner or add this to existing insurance.
  • Once you are completed and insured you have a choice of going onto my website of Trained By Us
  • Supervision if you choose to take part, recognised by ACA, PACFA.
  • You have the option of doing advanced training in Family Constellations and my other modalities.
  • I have been holding Family Constellations training for 15 years

 Constellation theory and practice is profound. This is perfect for anyone who wants to work with relationships, family dynamics, systemic trauma and self-worth. Poor self-worth often comes from family systems and often underpins depression, anxiety or panic attacks.

For those who would like to do Level 2 Deepening you may join. Details HERE

For those who have training with someone else you may apply for Approved Prior learning to enter level 2 training with us Details HERE

There is a new Family Constellations training stated this week if anyone is interested to join this one NOW. Details

 

I have just completed my second Family Constellation with Yildiz and I found it to be a profound experience touching into deep & lifelong soul pain. It feels like a huge relief of something releasing and opening into possibility lifting very old sadness.

Jackie

I am both gob smacked by the power of Family Constellations and at the same time jumping with inner joy. As I left our session I drove down the road realising my eyes had changed and with that my view on life is and will continue to also change. So many things about life are starting to make much more sense on all levels, it’s like a missing link. Many thanks

Jackie

Jan

What an amazing experience, so rich with knowledge and insight and such a grounded way to approach helping people at a fundamental level. A great course.

Jan

Jo

I have been to several international trainings and this was by far the best in terms of explanations and experiential learning. I strongly recommend it

Jo

David

I had a history of trauma in my life and there has been a lot of trauma in my family too. It wasn’t until I came across Yildiz that I found out that this was something that didn’t have to continue. True to her word I am now feeling so much more at peace with myself and my past. A great gift.

David

John

‘Being over looked for promotion had become a pattern that I was finding really frustrating. It was fascinating to discover how this pattern was a repeat of my situation in my family. I am now feeling so much more confident and am looking at my options in a different way. Many thanks.’

John

Julie

Love truly is the basis of this wonderful process. Family Constellations was an intense experience and it was a revelation watching, and being part of, the constellations of others.

Julie

David

‘As a manager I was ready for a new way of connecting with my team and creating a new and motivated culture that is both respectful and co operative. The Business Constellation helped me see how it was possible to improve team spirit and performance.’

David

Margarite

The sessions with Yildiz have been profound and yet so gentle

Margarite

Jana

Yildiz's is subtle but very strong facilitator and I would trust any story to be explored under her guidance in a safe and supported way. If you're ready for deep work, you're in the right place with her.

Jana